Welcome to Pro Circumcision. I’m Rabbi Asher Yablok, and I specialize in the ancient and respected practice of male circumcision. If you’re a parent in the New York/New Jersey tri-state area wondering, “Should I circumcise my son?” or “What are the risks of circumcision for my newborn?”—you’re not alone. This decision can be a tough one, involving health, personal beliefs, and cultural considerations. I’m here to provide guidance, answer your questions with empathy, and help you make the choice that’s right for your family.
Why Circumcision Matters
Circumcision is more than just a medical procedure. It has deep cultural, religious, and health-related significance. For centuries, it has been a key ritual in many cultures and faiths, particularly
in Judaism and Islam. In Judaism, a brit milah (circumcision ceremony) is performed on the eighth day after birth, symbolizing the child’s connection to the Jewish people. For Muslims, circumcision is seen as an act of cleanliness and purity.
Today, parents also consider circumcision for potential medical benefits, such as improved hygiene and disease prevention. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) acknowledges that male circumcision can help reduce the risk of certain infections and improve overall health. This mix of tradition and medical science can make the decision even more complex, but also more meaningful.
The Health Benefits of Circumcision
While the cultural and religious significance of circumcision is powerful, many parents also focus on the potential health benefits. Here’s a closer look at what science says:
Lower Risk of Urinary Tract Infections (UTIs)
Circumcised boys have a significantly lower risk of developing UTIs, especially during infancy. UTIs in infants can lead to serious kidney issues if not treated. Some parents find this benefit compelling enough to choose circumcision.
Reduced Risk of Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)
Research suggests that circumcised men are at a lower risk of contracting certain STIs, including HIV. A study by the World Health Organization (WHO) found that circumcised men had up to a 60% lower risk of contracting HIV compared to their uncircumcised counterparts. While the impact of this may not be immediate, it can be an important factor in the long-term health of your child.
Easier Hygiene and Lower Risk of Penile Cancer
Circumcision makes it easier to keep the penis clean, which reduces the risk of infections and inflammation. This is particularly beneficial in areas with limited access to clean water. Additionally, although penile cancer is rare, circumcised men have a lower risk of developing this condition. For some parents, this adds an extra layer of reassurance.
Prevention of Phimosis and Paraphimosis
Circumcision can prevent conditions like phimosis, where the foreskin is too tight to retract over the head of the penis, and paraphimosis, where the foreskin, once retracted, cannot return to its original position. Both conditions can cause significant discomfort and require medical intervention.
For more detailed information, you can refer to the American Academy of Pediatrics, which provides comprehensive guidance on the health benefits and potential risks of circumcision.
The Holistic Method vs. Hospital Method
When it comes to circumcision, there are different approaches: the clinical hospital method and the holistic method that I practice. Let’s explore what sets them apart.
The Hospital Method: A Clinical Approach
In hospitals, circumcision is often treated as a straightforward surgical procedure. The environment is sterile and efficient, but it can also feel impersonal. The process typically involves using medical devices like the Gomco clamp or Plastibell, with anesthesia to minimize pain. While the hospital method is medically sound and widely practiced, it sometimes lacks the emotional and spiritual elements that are so important to many families.
The Holistic Method: A Personalized Experience
My holistic approach offers a much more personal and meaningful experience. The circumcision is usually performed in the comfort of your own home, surrounded by family. This setting reduces stress for both the baby and parents, and allows the family to be fully involved in the process. Here’s how it’s different:
- Familiar Environment: The procedure takes place in a familiar and comfortable setting, such as your home. This helps create a calm and reassuring atmosphere for everyone involved.
- Gentle Technique: I use time-honored techniques that are quick and gentle, minimizing discomfort for the baby. My tools are sterilized and designed to be as non-invasive as possible.
- Spiritual Significance: I incorporate prayers and blessings, making the ceremony a deeply meaningful experience. This is not just a medical procedure but a spiritual event that connects the family in a profound way.
- Personalized Care: From the initial consultation to post-procedure follow-up, I’m available to answer any questions, address concerns, and guide you through the process step-by-step.
For more details, you can visit the Pro Circumcision website to learn more about the holistic method I offer..
Understanding the Risks of Circumcision
Like any surgical procedure, circumcision carries some risks, although they are relatively rare when performed by an experienced professional.
Possible Complications
- Infection and Injury: While uncommon, infections and injuries can occur. Proper hygiene and aftercare are crucial to minimize these risks.
- Bleeding: Some bleeding is normal, but excessive bleeding is a concern. It’s essential to follow the care instructions provided to ensure proper healing.
- Emotional Impact: For some parents, the thought of any surgical procedure on their newborn can be emotionally challenging. It’s important to feel comfortable and informed about the process.
Understanding these risks is essential. I always ensure that parents are fully aware of what to expect, both during and after the procedure, so they can make an informed decision that aligns with their comfort level.
Testimonials: Real Families, Real Experiences
Hearing from other parents who have chosen the holistic method can provide reassurance and clarity. Here are some testimonials from families I’ve had the honor of working with:
- Jen VanBarriger: “After having our son, I didn’t want his circumcision done in the hospital for many reasons. Our doula connected us with Asher, and I couldn’t be more grateful. He came directly to our house, and our son was able to lay in my husband’s arms the entire time. I was on the fence about circumcision in general, but this was definitely the way to go. Asher made us feel so relaxed and at peace”
- Brittney Anderson: “We are Christian, and although we had a home birth with our midwife and doula, we chose a Rabbi for our son’s circumcision because of the spiritual element. Rabbi Asher was very warm and welcoming despite us not being Jewish. His experience was evident; our son wasn’t in pain at all, and the healing process was quick”
- Mohsin Zaidi: “As a first-time parent, Asher Yablok made the whole process simple and straightforward. He guided us through everything on a Zoom call, which was so informative. We were very happy with Asher’s professionalism and mannerism”
These experiences highlight the unique benefits of the holistic method, not only in terms of the procedure itself but also in the emotional support and guidance provided. To read more testimonials please go to https://procircumcision.com/testimonials/
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Circumcision Painful?
During the procedure, I use local anesthesia to minimize discomfort. Babies may experience brief discomfort, but it is generally well-tolerated. The holistic approach also emphasizes reducing stress for the baby.
How Long Does Recovery Take?
The healing process typically takes about 7-10 days. The area may appear red or swollen, and slight bleeding is normal. Parents should follow aftercare instructions carefully and monitor the healing process.
How Do I Choose the Right Provider?
Choosing the right provider is crucial. Look for someone with experience, good reviews, and an approach that aligns with your values. As a mohel with years of experience, I blend medical knowledge with spiritual care, providing a personalized and compassionate experience.
Making the Best Decision for Your Family
Choosing whether or not to circumcise your child is a significant decision. It involves weighing the potential health benefits and risks, and considering your own cultural and personal beliefs. Consulting with a pediatrician, your spiritual advisor, or a professional like myself can help you make an informed choice that feels right for your family.
At Pro Circumcision, I am dedicated to providing you with all the information and support you need. My goal is to ensure you feel confident and comfortable in whatever decision you make.
Why Choose Pro Circumcision?
Choosing Pro Circumcision means trusting a professional who is committed to the safety and well-being of your child, as well as to the spiritual significance of this practice. Here’s what you can expect:
- Experience and Expertise: With years of experience, I offer a safe, respectful, and caring environment. I combine the spiritual aspects of circumcision with a deep understanding of pediatric care.
- Support and Guidance: I am here to support you from start to finish, offering guidance before, during, and after the procedure.
- Family-Centered Care: My holistic approach allows the family to be fully involved, creating a more meaningful and memorable experience.
Final Thoughts
As a parent, deciding whether or not to circumcise your child is one of many important decisions you will make. At Pro Circumcision, I am dedicated to providing expert guidance and compassionate care to help you make the best choice for your family. Whether you decide to proceed with circumcision or not, my goal is to ensure you feel informed and confident in your decision.
If you have any questions or would like to schedule a consultation, please don’t hesitate to contact me.
Phone: (516) 510-2436
Email: rabiasher@procircumcision.com
I am here to support you every step of the way.
